by The Freedom Model for Addictions | Nov 16, 2017 | Q&A
You Asked, We Answered Addiction Questions I constantly look at the consequences of my heroin habit, and I’m shocked I keep going back to it. Why do I do this? Chapter 16 of The Freedom Model for Addictions addresses this issue in detail. Take a look at this brief...
by The Freedom Model for Addictions | Nov 16, 2017 | Q&A
You Asked, We Answered Addiction Questions I keep smoking crack even after losing my kids. When will the consequences be enough? When will I hit bottom and change? No one has to hit bottom. Besides what does “hitting bottom” even mean? The real “bottom” is death, and...
by The Freedom Model for Addictions | Nov 16, 2017 | Q&A
You Asked, We Answered Addiction Questions I’ve been shooting heroin for many years and I’ve OD’ed 3 times. The last one, I was revived with Narcan. I know that heroin is the worst drug, the most addictive. So how does the Freedom Model help me stop shooting up? The...
by The Freedom Model for Addictions | Nov 16, 2017 | Q&A
You Asked, We Answered Addiction Questions I have tremendous guilt when I get high. I know I should want to stop, but I’m just not sure I can. Why is this such a struggle for me? The Freedom Model for Addictions discusses this topic in great detail and will provide...
by The Freedom Model for Addictions | Nov 16, 2017 | Q&A
You Asked, We Answered Addiction Questions I’m really struggling at this stage of my life. I’m recently divorced, have 2 kids I’m raising alone, and I find myself drinking way too much. It’s not uncommon for me to drink a bottle of wine at a sitting. Whenever I feel...
by The Freedom Model for Addictions | Nov 16, 2017 | Uncategorized
You Asked, We Answered Addiction Questions I need to be in recovery. I know your book says that it isn’t needed, but without being careful I will go back to using. I’ve been sober for 2 yrs, and recovery was my path there. I’m not sure I believe that recovery isn’t...
by The Freedom Model for Addictions | Nov 8, 2017 | Q&A
You Asked, We Answered Addiction Questions We have a 42 year old son who drinks too much. As his parents, how can we support his recovery and hold him accountable to follow through on his sobriety? There are three facets to this answer. The first is that your son...
by The Freedom Model for Addictions | Nov 8, 2017 | Q&A
You Asked, We Answered Addiction Questions I’ve been looking through your site and I do not see any mention of character defects being the cause of addiction or alcoholism. Do you guys not know that this is a fundamental cause of these problems? I am assuming you are...
by The Freedom Model for Addictions | Nov 8, 2017 | Q&A
You Asked, We Answered Addiction Questions I have been going to AA for nearly 8 years, and I just relapsed again. I’ve tried sober coaches, the 12 Steps, sober living, 3 rehabs. It’s just ridiculous. I’m at the end. What do people like me do? You are not alone. You...
by The Freedom Model for Addictions | Nov 7, 2017 | Q&A
You Asked, We Answered Addiction Questions Why do I keep drinking when I might lose everything I have if I continue? While you might have many personal reasons for your drinking, we have been listening to people’s desperate pleas about this confusion for nearly 3...
by The Freedom Model for Addictions | Nov 7, 2017 | Q&A
You Asked, We Answered Addiction Questions How do I quit using heroin and methamphetamine? Chapter 14 of The Freedom Model for Addictions talks about this in a way that people find quite helpful. However, because we do not have the space to place all 400+ pages of...
by The Freedom Model for Addictions | Nov 7, 2017 | Q&A
You Asked, We Answered Addiction Questions I don’t believe in the disease theory. It makes no sense. But that doesn’t mean I don’t need recovery. I need the tools to stay sober. But on your site you talk about the recovery trap. What gives? Yes, over the past 3...
by The Freedom Model for Addictions | Nov 7, 2017 | Q&A
You Asked, We Answered Addiction Questions If the addiction disease concept is correct, then I really do not have free will, right? You bring up a fundamental flaw in the disease concept that seems to get easily ignored by those in the recovery society who promote the...
by The Freedom Model for Addictions | Nov 7, 2017 | Q&A
You Asked, We Answered Addiction Questions Does a brain get hijacked by being an addict or alcoholic? In a word…NO. Brains change constantly. Any learned behavior or habit will change a brain. This is fact. But a brain that has adapted to drug or alcohol use does not...
by The Freedom Model for Addictions | Nov 7, 2017 | Q&A
You Asked, We Answered Addiction Questions When I go to AA, they keep saying that “once an alcoholic, always an alcoholic.” While I do think I am an alcoholic, if I can find a way to stop, am I still one after that? In the passage below taken from The Freedom Model...
by The Freedom Model for Addictions | Nov 7, 2017 | Q&A
You Asked, We Answered Addiction Questions I saw your site and your line about the trap caught my eye. I feel trapped. I feel like everyone around me thinks I will never get over this too. How do I escape this nightmare? In simple terms, by thinking differently. Of...
by The Freedom Model for Addictions | Nov 7, 2017 | Q&A
You Asked, We Answered Addiction Questions I saw your website and was a bit shocked. I’ve been in therapy for many years reviewing my past, and looking for the causes of my addiction. I feel like I’ve made some progress, but when I read some of the website, I realized...
by The Freedom Model for Addictions | Nov 6, 2017 | Q&A
You Asked, We Answered Addiction Questions My family is pushing me to go to another rehab. I literally hate the 12 Steps, I hate rehab, and I do not want to go back? How do I get my family to accept me and my want to go somewhere else? Over the past 3 decades, we have...
by The Freedom Model for Addictions | Nov 6, 2017 | Q&A
You Asked, We Answered Addiction Questions I have a son in college who has been struggling with what we think is a Xanax addiction. At least that what we think it is. How do we get him into a rehab when he has told us he doesn’t have a problem? Can we force him to go?...
by The Freedom Model for Addictions | Nov 6, 2017 | Q&A
You Asked, We Answered Addiction Questions I went to rehab and I feel worse off. Before I went, I did not think my problem with drinking was that bad. But after I got out, I binge worse, and now I feel addicted. What’s going on and how do I get past this? Your issue...
by The Freedom Model for Addictions | Nov 6, 2017 | Q&A
You Asked, We Answered Addiction Questions Every day I feel like I’m fighting to survive – to not drink. Is it always going to be this way?? That’s what I keep hearing. It’s really depressing. The answer is no, you won’t always feel this way if you have the...
by The Freedom Model for Addictions | Nov 6, 2017 | Q&A
You Asked, We Answered Addiction Questions I looked through your websites and I agree drug addiction and alcoholism is not a disease. But I do think it is a lack of control and strength. I’ve certainly felt weak and made the choice to get high again. So I think you...
by The Freedom Model for Addictions | Nov 6, 2017 | Q&A
You Asked, We Answered Addiction Questions I hate getting high. I really do. I don’t know why I do this. I don’t even like it anymore. Why do I keep doing this to myself? Am I one of those hopeless types? No, you’re not hopeless – rather, you are confused. You get...
by The Freedom Model for Addictions | Nov 6, 2017 | Q&A
You Asked, We Answered Addiction Questions Whenever I get stressed out, I smoke crack. Is this a common problem you’ve seen? Does stress cause people to smoke crack? Again, like some of the other answers to questions like yours, the word “cause” is a problem here. No...
by The Freedom Model for Addictions | Nov 1, 2017 | Q&A
You Asked, We Answered Addiction Questions Does mental illness cause addiction? The answer can be found in Chapter 6 of The Freedom Model for Addictions: “The recovery ideology of “underlying causes” has these people completely confused. According to the Surgeon...
by The Freedom Model for Addictions | Nov 1, 2017 | Q&A
You Asked, We Answered Addiction Questions I had a traumatic youth. It was extremely stressful and chaotic, and drugs became my answer. Today, I still find myself getting high as I try to deal with my traumatic past and lost relationships and my guilt. How do I deal...
by The Freedom Model for Addictions | Nov 1, 2017 | Q&A
You Asked, We Answered Addiction Questions I have depression. I was diagnosed when I was young, and I now have a severe drinking problem. I can’t figure out if depression causes alcoholism, or if my alcoholism causes my depression. Which is it? You are asking a...
by The Freedom Model for Addictions | Nov 1, 2017 | Q&A
You Asked, We Answered Addiction Questions Does poverty cause addiction? First it is important to note that there are no external causes of addiction. There are reasons that individuals internally decide to use heavily (living in poverty might be one of them) – but...
by The Freedom Model for Addictions | Nov 1, 2017 | Q&A
You Asked, We Answered Addiction Questions What are the causes of addiction? In order to answer your question, we must first define the word – causes, and then see if that is the correct term to explain why people use substances heavily. In Chapter 5 of The...
by The Freedom Model for Addictions | Nov 1, 2017 | Q&A
You Asked, We Answered Addiction Questions Isn’t Addiction Genetic? In a word – NO. Take a look from Chapter 3 of The Freedom Model for Addictions: “Many of our readers as well as their family members are convinced that addiction “runs in their family” and that there...
by The Freedom Model for Addictions | Nov 1, 2017 | Q&A
You Asked, We Answered Addiction Questions How Do I Resist Craving? To answer your question, you must first understand what a craving is from a logical standpoint. The Freedom Model for Addictions addresses this: “You don’t get cravings; rather, you actively crave, so...
by The Freedom Model for Addictions | Nov 1, 2017 | Q&A
You Asked, We Answered Addiction Questions A friend of mine was talking with me today and started talking about this book. She then tried to explain the recovery society you talk about in it. Can you tell me about this – I’m not getting it. Yes, we can. Here is a...
by The Freedom Model for Addictions | Nov 1, 2017 | Q&A
You Asked, We Answered Addiction Questions How do I stop using heroin? I’m scared to death of the withdrawals. You are not alone. Many people are frightened of opiate withdrawals. But we live in an age of a certain amount of hysteria and misinformation concerning...
by The Freedom Model for Addictions | Oct 31, 2017 | Q&A
You Asked, We Answered Addiction Questions Why are drug and alcohol rates currently increasing in the US? The simple answer is because we promote the idea that drugs and alcohol have power over the human’s free will. This myth drives the entire powerlessness narrative...
by The Freedom Model for Addictions | Oct 31, 2017 | Q&A
You Asked, We Answered Addiction Questions My family is pushing me to go to rehab. Is treatment really necessary to get over my addiction with alcohol and drugs? The answer to this question is two-fold. First, for those who use drugs heavily such as benzodiazepines or...
by The Freedom Model for Addictions | Oct 31, 2017 | Q&A
You Asked, We Answered Addiction Questions I’m addicted to pain pills, and sometimes get heroin when I can’t get my prescriptions. Am I someone that needs to go to treatment? No one should go to rehab. (Medical detox from substance use is a different matter when...
by The Freedom Model for Addictions | Oct 31, 2017 | Q&A
You Asked, We Answered Addiction Questions Is Naltrexone or Vivitrol a good option for getting over a drug or alcohol problem? The answer is yes and no. If you believe it will work, and you are already motivated to change, then the drugs will have their desired...
by The Freedom Model for Addictions | Oct 31, 2017 | Q&A
You Asked, We Answered Addiction Questions I’ve been in and out of rehabs and 12 Step groups for years. I want to be sober, but in order to do that do I still need to be in recovery forever? Do I still need to go to meetings? The answer lies in two things – the...
by The Freedom Model for Addictions | Oct 31, 2017 | Q&A
You Asked, We Answered Addiction Questions As a person who comes from a dysfunctional family, how do I get over my addiction? Do I need to replace my use with other activities, and do I need to fix my family life if I want to overcome my addictions for good? In other...
by The Freedom Model for Addictions | Oct 31, 2017 | Q&A
You Asked, We Answered Addiction Questions Does Suboxone work for a heroin problem? Suboxone is an unfortunate temporary distraction that eventually gives way to your desire to use heroin over the long haul. It provides a false sense of security and the illusion that...